Each
human being at one point of his life or the other must have fallen in the
Eternal Bliss of Life – LOVE.
I
have noticed a pattern in Love.
Blessed are those who found their Soul mate in their first friend.
When
we first start to make friend our age is about 3-6 yrs. In this age our mind is
not much developed in other words our Rationality is very low, so we do not
take any decision based on Logic but we still take decisions at this small age.
So how do we take decision at this young age, which is the force that guides us
to Like some people and dislike others? INTUITION. Yes at this very young age
we take our decision based on Intuition. At this age we are innocent to the “Rules
and Prejudices of the Adult society”. Our decision have inception in our Heart
not in our Head. Yes Intuition has its roots in our heart.
Coming
back to the main point. If you have your
soul mate/spouse who was you first friend, or who is your best friend since
your first days outside home, then God has bestowed on you his blessing like
rain. You have accepted someone from the bottom of your heart and soul. Your
love is not polluted by the Logic of Freaking society. You/He/She will treat
Human as Human not Hindu, Muslim, Black, White, Brahmin, Dalit, Rich or Poor. They
have accepted you as you, not as what society perceives you. He/She see you
through the lens of Heart, not through the lens of Society (Logic or Brain).
Lucky are those who found their soulmate in Schools
Schools
are the factories where Logics are Embedded in the most creative and beautiful
creation of the Nature – HUMAN. These logics are more often Rules and Prejudice
of the Adult society. To be more blunt, the whole purpose of Schooling system
is to prepare the innocent Child of Nature for the Adult society which is
mostly govern by Logics or Reasoning or by Simple rule of Profit and
Losssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!. In School we learn about our Race, Religion,
Caste(if you are Hindu),etc etc etc and all freaking things developed by human
to distinct one human from other. Here there is often happens a clash between
Heart and Brain or Between Intuition and Logic.
You
are a lucky soul if your life partner is one whom you choose when you were
together in school. Reason is simple your partner loves you for what you actually
are, She/He loves you since the days you were nothing (or everything because
nature gives us everything we need to live this life). In school we develop our
logic or brain for the life of adult society, Here is the first time we learn
to Judge Human being on the basis of Religion, Region, Creed, Race or Caste.
But still we remain connected to our Heart. Here our logic starts to develop
and we start to replace Natures gift – INTUTION, with Human creation –LOGIC.
Yet in schools we still takes all our decision based on the intuition. Here
major portion of human character is Intuition and Minor is Logic. So if you
have found your soul mate here then it’s probably (not certainly) that you have
chosen one whom your heart truly loves or you have kissed an Angel.
Lucky may be those who found their soulmate in Colleges
When we enter our college life we are literally at war with ourselves. Our Heart and Brain are at constant fight, one always wants to rule the other and then there is a third force—that mad rush of Hormones in the body. In college we take final decision, here we chose between Heart (Intuition) and Brain (Logic). We decide if henceforth we will take every decision based on Intuition or Logic. Here we choose one and leave other.
If
you met your soul mate in the college the chances of finding Angel are less but
they are there. In college life we are drawn to people more often by their Smartness
(Logic) and Sexuality (Beauty of Body) then by intuition. Here a boy is drawn
toward a girl by her beauty and figure (as if these are the only things to
judge a Girl). Here a girl is drawn toward a boy by his Muscle power or
Academic ability (which means secure future).
So
if you met your soul mate in the college S/He may have chosen you because of
your Physical appearance or Ability to earn bread, yes there are chances of
this decision being guided by intuition but they are little but they are. Because
in this stage our Logic is so much developed and the Rush of Hormone is so high
that they can easily defeat our intuition. Thus in college life we take major
decision based on Hormones or Logic and Intuition is left aside.
Businessman are those who found their soulmate after Colleges
After
college our life we become member of Adult society. We become more absorbed or
guided by rules (Prejudice) of Society. A girl eye for rich and handsome guy
from her own community and a boy eyes for a sexy and beautiful girl from a rich
family of his own community. So we rarely finds inter community marriages among
couple who met after college life. So we become Businessman/ Businesswoman
after college or when we become an active member of the Adult society. At this
stage all our decision are based on Profit and Losssssssss!!!. We ignore
Intuition and follow logic in every decision we take.
CONCLUSSION:
The
purpose of this blog is simply to decode the pattern that we follow in our life
since birth to till death, without even knowing it. I simply mean Nature makes
us Intuitive but Society makes us Logical, and how this affects our emotions
and decisions.
